At Least 10 of Our Unspoken Rules of Co-Parenting: π€« Boundaries, Kids, & Surviving Your Ex || DD227 || David and Rachel
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Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! π If youβre divorced over 40 struggling with co-parenting, you're not alone. I'm David, with Rachel and we're diving into the messy, complicated world of co-parenting. We're tired of sugar-coating it. This is real life, real challenges, and real solutions.
In this episode, we're talking about our top 5 co-parenting tips β both from my "non-cordial shit show" perspective π© and Rachel's more "love and light" approach β¨. No matter what your co-parenting style is, there are strategies that can make your life easier (and less stressful for your kids).
We're tackling:
Unrealistic Expectations: π€¦ββοΈ Why you thought you could still be friends with your ex (and why you probably can't).
Setting Boundaries (and Sticking to Them!): π§ No more "nice parent" bullshit. Rules are rules.
The "Holiday Harmony" Myth: π How to survive Christmas, birthdays, and every other special occasion without losing your damn mind.
The Ping Pong Effect: π Why inconsistent rules between households are messing with your kids.
Taking the Personal Hurt Out of It: β€οΈ Loving your kids more than you hate your ex (even when it's REALLY hard).
Communicating Like an Adult (Even When You Don't Want To): π£οΈ Using apps, texting strategically, and biting your tongue when necessary.
Recognizing What You Can and Cannot Control: π§ββοΈ Focus on yourself, your kids, and your own household. Let go of the rest.
Embracing Flexibilities π€ΈββοΈ Learn how to compromise and bend so your kids can enjoy their time.
We get it. Co-parenting is a grind. It's frustrating, it's exhausting, and it can feel like a never-ending battle. But it's also an opportunity to put your kids first, create a stable environment, and show them what it means to be a good human being.
So, if you're ready to ditch the drama, embrace the chaos, and find some sanity in the co-parenting process, subscribe to the channel and turn on notifications! π₯ We help with any questions on divorce advice.
Now it's your turn! π What's your biggest co-parenting challenge? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
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